Macie's mom pulled me aside a preschool pickup today. I was a little nervous because the one other time a mom pulled me aside it didn't go so well but today it was because she wanted to share a sweet story with me.
This weekend when they were in the car Macie asked her "Mom when I'm 10 will my friends be 10 too?" and "so when I'm a grown up my friends will be grown up too?" She said she wondered where this was leading but then Macie dropped the bomb.
"Mom - when I'm a grown up and Hank's a grown up I'm going to marry him."
She said she shared it with Macie's dad and he said "Aren't 4 year old girls supposed to want to marry their dads?"
I smiled thinking it was cute and that Macie is the sweetest girl in his class but as I drove home I wondered a few things:
- how might I feel 10 years from now in this scenario
and
- how might I feel as the mother of a 4 year old daughter versus and 4 year old son
and
- maybe I don't need to have any deep thoughts about this at all (but I probably will anyway because that's just me)
But for right now he's just my precious sweetheart!